Life of a Family Man in Digital

For over 10 years I have written this as a personal blog. In 2019, I decided to stop my regular columns and see where the journey takes me with less regular posts. I also host a podcast and published a productivity book – links on the left hand side.

NLP revisited (2)

NLP and DBM are closely connected. NLP is like the tool, e.g. a hammer. With a hammer you can smash glass or a brick. But if you like to master the hammer in order to use it in a useful manner, one needs the technique, goal and direction to put a nail in the wall. DBM goes beyond the tool and provides you with the techniques on how to use it. Applications of NLP/DBM are universal. In coaching, careers advice, personal development, change management, motivation, sustainable change. Some services of CB Consulting are based on those techniques and tools to achieve sustainable change. O’Connor and Seymour in their book “Introducing NLP” nicely describe “the map is not the territory”.An artist, a lumberjack and a botanist taking a stroll through a wood will have a very different experiences and notice very different things. If you go through the world looking for excellence, you will find excellence. If you go through the world looking for problems, you will find problems. Perception and beliefs are basic understandings of how we see the world. I just finished reading a book called “Die vergessene Generation (the forgotten generation)” by Sabine Bode – it gives an

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The Prince and the Magician

A story related to NLP – I recommend everyone to read the book by John Fowles, the Magus. Amazing! Once upon a time there was a young prince who believed in all things but three. He did not believe in princesses, he did not believe in islands, and he did not believe in God. His father, the king, told him that such things did not exist. As there were no princesses or islands in his father’s domains, and no sign of God, the prince believed his father. But then, one day, the prince ran away from his palace and came to the next land. There, to his astonishment, from every coast he saw islands, and on these islands, strange and troubling creatures whom he dared not name. As he was searching for a boat, a man in full evening dress approached him along the shore. “Are those real islands?” asked the young prince.“Of course they are real islands,” said the man in evening dress.“And those strange and troubling creatures?”“They are all genuine and authentic princesses.”“Then God must also exist!” cried the young prince.“I am God,” replied the man in evening dress, with a bow. The young prince returned home as

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NLP revisited (1)

What happened in the last week? Business and more business – I had interesting chats, met people and ideas. There are so many of you out there that are interested in people, motivation, coaching and sustainable business. And often someone gets curious and asks “what is NLP” and “I am afraid of NLP”. That happened to me last week too when someone approached me and came up with one of the oldes prejudice I came across in NLP. If someone is looking to the left or right it means something specific…..yes I said, it can be. But it does not have to be – the biggest mistake most people do is to generalize, to assume that if you do A then B must be true. Whilst that, in some cases, can be 99% right, for many other cases it could be 99% wrong. So never assume without knowing the territory ,-) So let me summarize what I think of NLP. What is DBM and where is the difference. NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, was developed in the 70-ties. Names associated to this are John Grinder and Richard Bandler (I will not go into much detail as you can read about most

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Website live

Hello Readers, Now my homepage www.cb-consulting.co.uk is finished. Hurray! Congratulations ,-) What are the next steps? Due to my main job constraints I did not progress with my blog as quickly as I would have liked to but surely I catch up over the next week. So let me know what you think about my website and my services. Any suggestions? Any queries? Have a good weekend, Volker cb consulting – enhancing performance from within

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First Note

Dear Reader, Today is the 5th of May 2007. I just started setting up my own company called CB Consulting. The papers are ready, the website registered, the aim and purpose is clear and now I created a blog. This blog will be hidden until I started putting the first topics down. Those will be about NLP, DBM, Buddhism, Spirituality, Business, Management, Careers….. – anything that relates to the service of CB Consulting. To find out more about me please visit www.cb-consulting.co.uk or click on the link to the site. Many thanks for your interest. Yours Volker cb consulting – enhancing performance from within

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