SUCCESS isnâ€™t created by business itself; a balance in life with family and hobbies is key; happiness is an important factor closely aligned with SUCCESS.
I touched on that in the previous principle. Happiness is closely related to success, and my humble opinion is that without a partner and maybe children, or a healthy family that balances work, success in work alone is not worth it. But that might just be my perception.
It is a bit of a bold statement of course. And how you define family is down to you, and whether you want to or would like to have kids. I wasnâ€™t sure for a long time but couldnâ€™t wish for anything else but my two boys, my wife and us sharing experience and life together. You can read more on this blog in my weekly Sunday Column.
However, if you arenâ€™t lucky enough to have family, you need a hobby. This is something I realised very late in life, because my focus was always on work and family. There wasnâ€™t much room for other interests, particularly as my wife never allowed me to get a motor cycle 😉 Yet the key is to find something you enjoy outside work. Maybe you play golf, or hike, build car models or exercise. It is important to have a focus outside work. Ideally it is family plus a hobby.
The reasons are simple. Life is there to be enjoyed and being happy. And most people are happy when they spend time with family and friends, relax, chill out and have fun or create experiences with others. So if your sole focus is work and career, and if you are success driven, there is a danger to get stuck in that rut. So instead one should ensure to have a balanced life to relax from work and get a different perspective at least.
Research has shown that people who have a happy and satisfied life outside work are actually better at their day job, circling ever so much higher into the orbit. Just switching off your phone and not checking emails after work is a win/win situation for both work and life!
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