Failure breeds SUCCESS; keep trying, learn constantly, donâ€™t take yourself too seriously, and improve daily; be fearless
Similar to last week, when I first heard of a growth mindset, I thought of another management fad. Of course it isnâ€™t, but the growth mindset goes in line with self consciousness and EQ.
When you start monitoring your impact on your environment and see how people react towards you, you can adjust your behaviour. You are starting to learn from mistakes and see what works.
That is true of course with any mistake. If you make a mistake, the key thing is to learn from it. People used to be afraid of mistakes and I often joke to my staff that I never make mistakes. Then I stop and see how they react. I then clarify that I am not serious, as even managers make mistakes. And that is important to admit, because we all fail. A silly email, the wrong wording, the wrong people on the thread, or even something more serious, the wrong amount in the campaign set up….it happens to the best of us. Lack of sleep or not concentrating, distracted by noise or hayfever….the reason doesnâ€™t matter.
Important is only one thing. You have to move on. Learn from every step you take, and learn from every interaction and from every mistake, small or big. Try to avoid the same mistake twice, to improve on a continuous basis.
In line with that the advice given by my guests were to â€˜not take yourself to seriouslyâ€™ which I think was Pascal Finette who mentioned it first. The other one: be fearless, or â€˜see it, do itâ€™. Yes, just go for it. Try to achieve the unachievable, and if you fail, get up again and try again. Now you are wiser, try again and again, until you are successful. Because at the end of the day, you will be succeeding.
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